Princessa's Diary: August 2010

Im not motivated to blog lately due to the sucky connection. And yes its streamyx again.

Im currently on a healthy diet.first time being so determined to stick on to a proper diet plan and going to the gym for the longest time. but I guess im gonna give up soon cause I cannot resist good food!!

Ive been learning a lot bout life,human,love and RESPONSIBILITY lately.been hearing all the real life experience,be it good or bad,really moved me a lil although im just some outsider and a listener to them.

I believe the word Responsible does plays an important part in each and everyone’s life. we were taught to be responsible in everything we do daily and to ppl around us since young.We are responsible to our family,to the things we do daily,for every single things we said and also to friends and ur loved once.

So Ive heard of this true story from a friend saying that the ex gf committed suicide because of him. Some of u might think that it’s really bullshit or its just some scene which only happens in drama series,movies or what-so-ever.but this is something which really does happen in real life. My friend blamed himself for not handling the whole situation properly, they didn’t break up in a good way. He totally ignore the ex gf once they broke up and he moved on with his life. Now that she’s gone, he is blaming himself for not being responsible over the whole relationship esp during the break up period.

In every relationship, both parties have to be responsible. When someone goes after you they will try their level best to convince you, to understand you, to suit to you and ur needs, and do all sorts of touching things just to make you fall for them. And when you’re in the relationship, you feel all the love, both of you go thru all the happy moments together, make commitments to each other and promises things to your partner. When it comes to the break up period, there came in the word SELFISH and the word RESPONSIBILITY is forgotten. You just want to move on with your life that u forget how the other party is doing. And this is one mistake made by most of the people in relationships. When u want that particular person to be with u, you will do whatever it takes, and when it comes to breaking up, you just want everything your way and neglect the other person.

My friend couldn’t move on because of this and if he were to handle a break up in a proper manner, prolly the girl will still be alive. Its not totally his fault, because in another way, the girl chose to end her life and it does take a lot of courage for her decision.

I believe this story can really give a lesson to all of us who are still living in this world,to appreciate people around us,be responsible in all ways and in things you’ve said. Of course we always do hope for the best for others, just move on and don’t be selfish.

p/s:excuse my sucky english cause im not good at writing